Cathy R's Father's Experience
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Experience description:
My father was
dying of esophageal cancer. He was always a strong minded as well as a strong
bodied person. When he was diagnosed, he was given only a few weeks to live.
About 3 months after his diagnosis, he was still alive, but very sick. He
couldn't walk, eat, or even turn himself over in bed. My mother had to do
everything for him. He always refused pain medication because he insisted that
he wasn't really in pain, but just felt weak and very sick. One night, he was
lying in his bed and suddenly started talking to Kenneth and William.....his
brothers that had passed away over 70 years ago. He asked my mother why she
wasn't offering them a seat, and told her that she was being rude. My mother
asked him what he was talking about, and he got really upset with her. She
brought in 2 chairs from the kitchen then walked out and closed the door. She
was very shook up. The next day, she asked my father about what had happened
the night before. He was very lucid, and told her that Kenneth and William are
there to take him home. He died that night.